How does a gay guy meet other gay teens in his area?

The first step you absolutely have to take is coming out. How can someone accept you if you can't fully accept yourself? I'm going through the same thing as you, and I know, it sucks. It sucks being alone...you feel like no one really understands you, no one really knows how you feel, but I promise, once you learn that there are others like you in the area you'll feel much better. You'll also feel very relieved once you're out of the closet. There are a lot of benefits to coming out. Just do it on your own terms, and don't be stupid about it. If you feel coming out could endanger your safety, then please, don't. Too many people make this mistake. First comes physical health, and then mental in my opinion. So please, wait until the right time, and when it happens, I know you'll feel great!